Pri akomko\u013evek konflikte, probl\u00e9me, nepokoji,strachu medzi dvoma \u013eu\u010fmi je nutn\u00e1 komunik\u00e1cia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pozn\u00e1me to zo \u017eivotn\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 sa n\u00e1m dej\u00fa ….,\u010di u\u017e s\u00fa to priatelia, \u0161\u00e9fovia, partneri, rodinn\u00ed pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edci, na\u0161e deti, rodi\u010dia je to jedno….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010co zvykneme robi\u0165 v nepr\u00edjemn\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch, kedy nie sme schopn\u00ed postavi\u0165 sa \u010delom a poveda\u0165 pravdu, \u010do c\u00edtim…., ak u\u017e c\u00edtim krivdu, ujmu, tr\u00e1penie, nepochopenie, sm\u00fatok, alebo nespokojnos\u0165, a ovl\u00e1da n\u00e1s ten praoby\u010dajn\u00fd strach a my ani nevieme z \u010doho a pre\u010do ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale \u201con\u201d je p\u00e1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On n\u00e1s ovl\u00e1da, n\u00fati?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My z neho rob\u00edme p\u00e1na….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A tak sa, \u201ctrochu drzo\u201d p\u00fdtam, kde je vtedy u v\u00e1s Boh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nie je On p\u00e1n?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nem\u00e1 on v na\u0161ich \u017eivotoch n\u00edm by\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00e1n a Boh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve\u010f mu aj hovor\u00edme P\u00e1n Boh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tak pre\u010do je zrazu p\u00e1n, p\u00e1n Strach….?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010co m\u00e1me pri ovl\u00e1dan\u00ed strachom robi\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ako zvykneme reagova\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taji\u0165? Klama\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zameta\u0165 veci pod koberec a tv\u00e1ri\u0165 sa, \u017ee nie s\u00fa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prehlu\u0161ova\u0165 hlas vn\u00fatra ( du\u0161e) rozumom a \u010dinnos\u0165ou a organiz\u00e1ciou pr\u00e1ce, len aby som na \u201cto\u201d nemyslel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neust\u00e1lym \u00fatekom od pravdy a komunik\u00e1cie a ak sa nedar\u00ed \u00fatek tak sa men\u00ed na \u00fatok, popieranie, zapieranie…..? \u010coho?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pravdy… ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Akej?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tej, ktor\u00fa c\u00edtime, ale nechceme (nedovol\u00ed n\u00e1m to hlava ( pov\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine zo strachu))o nej hovori\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tak\u00ed sme….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Behom malej chv\u00edle na z\u00e1klade konfliktu, kedy popierame pravdu, prest\u00e1vame by\u0165 p\u00e1nmi situ\u00e1cie, p\u00e1nmi svojho \u017eivota, st\u00e1vame sa otrokmi t\u00fdch in\u00fdch s\u00edl prostredn\u00edctvom strachu, a potom s\u00fa \u201c oni\u201d p\u00e1ni a ti nielen na\u0161eho \u017eivota, ale i \u017eivota na\u0161ich najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch ke\u010f strach za\u0165ahujeme do denn\u00e9ho \u017eivota a nielen to…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010co sa udeje?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nielen to, \u017ee nie sme p\u00e1nmi na\u0161ich \u017eivotov, sme schopn\u00ed poprie\u0165 Boha….lebo ak sa boj\u00edme p\u00e1nom rob\u00edme zlo cez strach….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Boha na tu chv\u00ed\u013eu pustime a opust\u00edme….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mo\u017eno je to a\u017e moc tvrdo povedan\u00e9….,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale m\u00e1me si to uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
toto sa deje bez n\u00e1\u0161ho vedomia, ak nie sme vedom\u00ed a uvedomel\u00ed….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toto sa deje vo chv\u00ed\u013each nespokojnosti, ke\u010f nekomunikujeme otvorene, skr\u00fdvame, zamet\u00e1me pod koberec, o\u010dak\u00e1vame zl\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky, ne_ver\u00edme….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u017e tak hlboko kles\u00e1ne a ani si to neuvedomujeme…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u010fme si vedom\u00ed toho, akou silou nar\u00e1bame a ak\u00e9 je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ma\u0165 vieru v dobro, v pravdu, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1 a mus\u00ed v\u00ed\u0165azi\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Robme v\u0161etko preto, aby sme nikdy neutekali a ani neatakovali, ne\u00fato\u010dili….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale na druh\u00fa stranu vedeli sa za pravdu pistavi\u0165 a br\u00e1ni\u0165….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u010fme citov\u00ed i citliv\u00ed….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u010fme ch\u00e1pav\u00ed a empatick\u00ed, ako sami k sebe, tak i k druh\u00fdm …..<\/p>\n\n\n\n